Couples Therapy

• The built up resentment in each of you feels overwhelming.
• The fear of losing each other prevents you from being honest with one another.
• Talking to each other without disrespecting each other seems difficult.
• Neither of you feel heard no matter how loudly you scream!
• Infidelity has led to a loss of trust that you fear you will never regain.
• You feel the relationship you thought you had is lost forever.

How I Can Help
When I work with my couples in therapy, I see over and over again how much they love each other, and yet how miserable each person is in the current state of affairs; both are true to the same degree. So often, it's hard to have space for two people and two sets of feelings, thoughts and issues.

The problems in your relationship are never the result or the responsibility of one of you. My goal in working with my couples is to help each of you see what you are doing to contribute to the problems in your relationship, and what your relationship, as a unit, is doing to serve each of you in staying stuck in familiar, old patterns.

I provide a safe space for you to fight with each other, fear each other, love each other, empathize with each other, hear each other, and ultimately, have space for each other. Couples therapy can be very difficult, and requires a lot of hard work, practice, and willingness to be clumsy and not do it right for a while. However, with willingness and openness, the fruits of your labor can be life changing.